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I can't even believe I have an expiry date. I can either decide to go jump in front of a bus this afternoon - or not.
Do most religions uphold "fate"? If fate was "true" - then what would be the point, for example, of learning to live by a set of rules? Surely you would just live as you felt - there'd be no point in making a particular decision - as the end result is has already been marked out for you.
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Dp, we all know our end result is mapped out for us, we will expire one day. Most of us hope it wont be for a long time, but it will happen.
I guess we live by a set of rules to make us feel better about ourselves, everyone needs some sort of structure and rules to live by, even if it's only the most simplest of ones, like getting out of bed each morning.
And yes, life really is like that, you have the power to decide what to do - do I chooses to carry on living today, or jump off a high building. Most people are sensible and fearful enough not to do something so dramatic, but there are the odd few who do end their lives for one reason or another.
Which prompts me to ask you all if you know the answer to the following -
This is true, the majority of people who commit suicide, take their shoes off first - why?
This has puzzled me for ages.
Kat
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This is true, the majority of people who commit suicide, take their shoes off first - why? |
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You'd think it would be their underpants, wouldn't you?
Maybe they don't understand the processes down at the undertakers ;-)
Alex
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Yes, when I said "I can't even believe I have an expiry date" I did mean a pre determined one! I'm assuming I will one day shuffle off
Shoes - I wonder if it's a "well, I won't be needing those anymore" thing.
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Ha ha very funny Alex.
Now I really must go and do this blooming tree.
Bye
Kat
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If one views Christian and Islamic eschatolgy, the idea of a destined End of the World, Day of Judgement etc, one can see that these religions most definitly believe in fate. Not only that, they believe civilisation as we know it has a prophesised 'expiry' date. It is where the very idea of fate comes from - religion and mythology.
I believe the fates (or Norns) first arrived in Nordic mythology. They basically knit your life, and cut it with scissors when your designated times up. Neil Gaiman put this myth to wonderful use in the Sandman graphic novels.
There are various forms of this 'destiny' ideal running through history and mythology. Many expeditions and wars took place because individuals believed, or were told, it was their 'destiny' to do such and such - and no one likes to piss off a god.
According to Christianity, and Islam (and several branches of) it is our destiny to seek redemption at the feet of various messiahs, and in the end, each one of us will be judged. Those found wanting will be pitched into eternal fire, while the rest rise up to Heaven. It could be argued that destiny and fate are the cornerstones of human civilisation, rightly or wrongly.
JB
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OK - could be a case of semantics ... ?
As I see it -
we all know our end result is mapped out for us, we will expire one day |
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That's not fate - that's just fact. It's going to happen to everyone, and doesn't distinguish between mine and someone else's future.
According to Christianity, and Islam (and several branches of) it is our destiny to seek redemption at the feet of various messiahs, and in the end, each one of us will be judged. |
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Isn't that belief or faith[/]? If destiny is the same as fate - i.e. what will be will be - why is that dependent on what you believe in?
Interesting discussion for a Monday afternoon!
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oops - missed some formatting there.
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Christianity only has one messiah - Jesus. As far as I am aware, Islam has none, and Judaism is still waiting for him to appear. The latter two religions have prophets, of course, but they are not the same as messiahs (and, in fact, Islam regards Jesus as a prophet, rather than a messiah).
Just to clarify the distinction: a prophet is someone who tells people God's message, whereas a messiah is sent by God as a saviour and redeemer.
(I'm not trying to make any points here, just to add information for anyone who is interested.)
Alex
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It's a good point Alex. This sounds like an interesting discussion to have with my vicar brother over the Christmas dinner table!
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Hi,
I've done the tree so that's one job to cross off the Christmas 'to do' list.
Working in the funeral profession, I had lots of these same conversations with some of my minister friends. They were great actually, especially as I don't really believe in God.
They all, obviously, have this one belief that when they expire, they will definitely meet their maker.
I'm not so sure though, and I find it hard to fathom how they can devote the whole of their life to something that nobody knows for sure exists. Yes they believe 100% that there is a God, but what if they are wrong and when we die, that's it, a big fat nothing. They're going to be pretty pissed off aren't they, there again no, 'cos there wont be anything so they wont know.
I do have this belief that most people who believe in God, do so because they are afraid of dying. They are afraid that when they whizz off this mortal coil, there will be nothing, so the hope that they will go somewhere else gives them something to cling on to and brings them comfort. And that is fine, if it makes them feel better.
Personally I find the whole idea of there being a heaven and a God, a bit chocolate boxy, with visions of angels playing harps etc.
I feel that as long as we are remembered by our loved ones, we will never truly die. I read something once that has stayed with me, it said 'you only cease to exist if you are forgotten', which I thought was lovely.
Kat
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Phew, that's a bit deep for a monday afternoon!
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If the believers are right, then it's going to be the agnostics and atheists who are pissed off. Anyone else familiar with Rowan Atkinson's "Devil" sketch on the "Live in Belfast" album? ("Atheists, are you here? You must be feeling a right bunch of charlies.")
On the other hand, if there really isn't anything, then believers won't have wasted their time, because they will still have lived their lives to their best ability and knowledge. (Assuming, of course, that they really have. Self-serving religious hypocrites don't get much shrift even within Christianity, as Jesus' admonishments of the Pharisees showed.)
Alex
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I wasn't saying that fate is the same as destiny, or that faith is either of these - just stating that the idea of fate and destiny are an integral part of religion, and religion is an integral part of civilisation. Alex, thanks for the clarification over messiah and prophet.
As for 'not existing unless remembered' argument, I think that strays into 'if a tree falls down in a forest, and nobody is around to hear it, does it still make a sound?' territory. Personally, I feel like I know there is more to existence than just this life, and to me the idea of people just dying and rotting is preposterous. Einstein proved energy doesn't die, only transmutes, and human beings are just atoms (i.e energy) vibrating at different frequencies, comprising mass - just like everything else in the universe.
I don't only believe it on scientific grounds, but that is where my faith lies - something that has nothing to do with religion. Having said that, I was raised to believe in reincarnation, so how much of it is just my own indoctrination, I'll probably never know. I do know that, ten years ago, when I stopped breathing for five minutes, and my lips when blue, I did not 'die' in the conventional sense. Yes, there was a coridoor of rippling light, and a keen awareness that I should return to my body, as my destiny, or purpose had not yet been served.
JB
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To clarify the religious point, think of prophets. Prophets speak 'prophecy', information about that yet to come, more than 'God's word'. A preacher does that, a prophet tells the future.
Jesus was prophesised to come and save mankind by dying. The whole of western civilisation is based on the ideal of destiny and fate and prophecy. It is useless to deny that.
JB
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I have a close friend who is, unlike myself, a big Christian, C of E. There seem to be advantages other than a secure afterlife, mainly, for her, as a member of the church, especially as she tends to work abroad and it's a good way of getting in touch with a friendly community. She has a good social life with people who are more or less obliged to be helpful to one another. I don't think they believe in harps, etc. and they have these bible study sessions where they discuss knotty theological problems. Another friend, met in China, is a Franciscan monk, and it doesn't seem to hold him back, expcept he is not allowed to marry, to which he is not inclined; in fact, neither of them are. So I think it is a very good thing for single people who have given up on ever getting married.
Sheila
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If I meet my maker sooner than I'd like, and it's possible to get in touch with those here on earth, I'll let you all know. I'll add a phantom post to one of your threads or something.
All joking aside, although I don't believe in a God as such, I think there may be something in us existing after death here on earth.
My grandad always told me, that if he could, he'd let me know he was around after he'd died, and I had some really weird stuff going on after his death, so maybe there is somwthing, who knows?
Kat
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