Haven't been able to read all this (blimey, what a lot gets posted on WW when you're out of touch for a week) so, going back to the original question, here are some thoughts in no particular order, which may repeat what's been said.
Start wherever appeals to you - whatever vision has just come. Write all the scenes from all over the book whenever you want to. This is easy because it cashes in on your enthusiasm, but a) you need to have a pretty clear idea of what the elements of the bok will be, and b) even if you have, you can land you in knitting-up problems later, and you may end up having to bin some really good writing because there's no true home for it in the book. Can you trust yourself to recognise those darlings that need murdering?
Do that as a way in, to find a voice, nail a character, whatever, then go back and start at Page One. That first little bit may or may not turn out to belong in the novel. You may want to do that again - take time out from the steady progress onwards from p.1, to write odd scenes as they occur to you. Could be great, could make it very difficult to get back to that steady progress.
Start at (what you think will be) Page One, and keep writing, not stopping or going back or fiddling, till The End of the first draft. FWIW, this is what I do, because a lot of my practice is aimed at reproducing in my writing the first draft, as nearly as possible, the reader's experience in reading it. I do a fair bit of planning first, but all in literal and metaphorical pencil, with a total openness to rubbing out and re-planning as and when it needs.
Whatever you do - and as I can tell from only skimming the thread, WWers have come out in their usual strength and enormous variety on this - recognise that this first novel is your first pancake. The chances are it'll end up in a half-burnt-half-raw blob on the plate. That's because the pan needs seasoning, and you need to learn your trade. (We all do - I blogged about this recently here -
http://emmadarwin.typepad.com/thisitchofwriting/2008/07/just-for-the-sake-of-it.html - and the pancake analogy's just got another blog thought going, so many thanks)
Very good luck with it!
Emma