Well checking in the nearest childrens book to hand, they do put them in capitals if they are used as the person's name or nickname, or similar. But not if it's just a common noun.
eg:
"Hi, Dad," he said as his dad came into the room.
or,
"Hello, Mum," he said as his mother came into the room.
- NaomiM
<Added>Drat, I'm going to have to go back and change all mine now.