It's interesting to hear from someone who has had this experience, Dee. So far, I've had about 20 rejections too, but have now been asked to submit a full MS to an agent, so I'm pretty chuffed about it. I felt my opening chapters were a bit slow, and am fairly happy with the rest, so I'm crossing fingers...either way, it's exciting to know someone professional is going to read the whole thing. So far, I've not let anyone have the privelidge. Not even friends or family. I don't really know why - well, it's because I want to present a properly printed book rather than a stack of A4 paper!!!
When I first started sending out my samples, the book wasn't edited or polished, and after the first ten rejections, and a near miss , I edited and revised the book and then started sending it out again. This time, the feedback has been a lot more encouraging, so I totally agree with presenting your best side. I found the advice in the artists and writers yearbook invaluable, and on sites like this, it's absolutely brilliant to connect with people having similiar experiences.
I'll never undervalue how much I have learnt!
I also agree with the 'one book' theory. Not one to rest on my laurels, I've already plotted two new novels, and a novella AND a possible sequel to the first book. The two new novels I've started writing concurrently as they are very different and it's a challenge. Of course, if I get as far as meeting this agent, I'll express this desire to continue to create novels and indeed, have always done this in my introductory letters. It's good advice you're giving here.
I did live in Amsterdam for a year about seven years ago, and to be honest, I don't remember that much about it...I was pretty reckless when I was there, and hung out with a bunch of Irish and French lads, so I didn't really get to grips with local culture much. If I were you, I'd go spend a week or so there. It's a very pretty, astonishing place, and it's really cheap to get a return flight now. The Dutch are very friendly people, so I'm sure you'd have no trouble at all finding out the information you want
James x
<Added>I remember it was very very flat outside the city, and that the winter was bitterly cold. All the canals froze and the pipes burst in the squat I was staying in. I was utterly in love with someone who spoke very little English, and took to wearing a bobbly hat for some strange reason, after the sleeve of my army jacket caught fire one night...:)
I'm fine now.