In a way, I'd like to congratulate you on getting your first rejection... because it means you have the courage to put your work out there and see what happens. Rejections are inevitable at all stages of the game, and the only way to avoid them is to keep your work tightly under wraps and never show anyone! |
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I second this. Unfortunately, the only writers' stories that tend to get publicised are those involving lucky first-time breaks. The reality though is that rejection is the normal state, even for writers who publish a lot.
I've said this before but when I took up writing short fiction seriously (in 2006), I had over 100 rejections before I sold a story, and that's with a covering letter that showed I'd had several novels published. A few months ago I sold a story (to a very good market) that I've been circulating for 6 years and which had been rejected 24 times.
I can honestly say that rejection is no longer painful! The first caveat, however, is that you have to know you're submitting publishable work. And if you are, then conversely it may seem, you don't get hurt when it's rejected. You know there are just dozens of factors you simply can't control: timing, publisher's current needs, editor's taste, editor's hangover, etc. Which means you actually need to think this way about acceptance, too, of course.
Terry