Hey Skippoo,
All sorts of places, private parties, indie/alternative clubs, "alternative clubs" that kind of thing. Believe it or not I bought the full length leopard skin coat in the Oxford circus TopMan (yes TopMan) in the mid 90's. I still have it hung in my wardrobe right next to my electric/silver fuffly coat.
I still like to stand out but I've toned it down a little now. I gave up the eyeliner and nail varnish too, dunno why just kind of fell out of it. I guess I'm what you'd call a metrosexual these days and you wouldn't believe hoe often I get chatted up by men!
Raves really weren't my thing, I don't drink, smoke or do drugs and can't abide to be around huge groups of people doing just that. Still I don't regret a thing
Geoff