Sorry about that - back now. Sorry to snap - as I said I only saw that quoted bit and I thought, cheeky bugger - didn't respond to the BIG post! My mistake and you have my apologies. Been a bit stressed lately, does it show?
The other thing I can suggest is see if any schools run book/writing clubs and see if they want you to attend and maybe even give a little talk. There won't be any money in it but again it's a start and people will start to associate your name and face with writing.
Still frazzled (but with fresh brew, so a little better),
Nik.